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Why does love die?
Why does love die if love never dies?

Why does love die if love never dies? People say that true love never dies. And so we live hoping for the happy endless love. How then does it happen that seemingly love dies, slips through the fingers? "Was there death of love or had he/she just left me, with love not gone?” - both answers are hard to understand. When we are in the hurting situation of lost love we ask ourselves: "Where has the love gone?" Not WHY, but WHERE. After being absolutely crazy in love, we just cannot believe into the complete death of love, the death of all feelings and memories.Then what really happens to it, if love never dies?
A word about adultery
Rod Dreher
I've been thinking a lot over the past day about why I have such intensely
strong emotional reactions to news about adultery, comparable to my fierce
reactions to news about child abuse.
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Work hard, if you want to keep love
Psychologist Irina Rakhimova
Infatuation is a superficial feeling, which cannot stay for a long time, but love can be checked by years. It is considered that 10-15 year is the period during which we understand that person will not leave you, will not betray you and you can trust this person. There is a connection of two people on all levels – on physical, emotional and moral.
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The girl who left, was she your Juliette?
Archpriest Igor Gagarin
Thus, having met a person you can feel sympathy or liking for him (her) but you can make very little of him (her), as you can see only a part of the personality, moreover you can see the part this person chooses to show you. And you imagination is envisioning the rest, the part you can’t see. It is clear that your vision may not agree with the real object...
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Once in true love, we won’t be able to stop loving
Priest Andrew Lorgus
If the dearest one leaves you, it doesn’t mean they stop loving. Here we have a change of heart, but not a change in the heart. It is quite possible that true love still exists there in the heart. And what is more, I’m absolutely sure it’s impossible to stop loving, a human heart isn’t able to stop it...
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The feeling that is not endless doesn’t have the right to be called ‘love’
Priest Ilia Shugaev
Hroblem of love is not the problem of choice of a spouse, but the very ability to love. Sure enough, if you want to have a good wife; you might be looking for one carefully and for a long time, but you might never find an ideal match. But if you want to become a good husband, you may become that one with any wife. So, whatever wife you have, be sure you are a good husband – that is it!
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Everything, that God allows to happen to us, has some meaning
Hegumenos Evmenij (Peristij)
In one sense infatuation is ‘Koshchei disease’. Koshchei the Deathless is the character of Russian fairy tales, one who has life not inside himself, but at the other location. That is why his life is always under the threat. For the status of infatuation such condition is typical: the meaning of our life is with another person.
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