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My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years. We often talked about marriage and we are just a normal happy couple. Neither one of us have cheated nor done anything to put our relationship at risk, and everything is going just fine. But a few months ago, I started having dreams about his friend... Trust me, I never liked him at all. I mean, he's not even my type and i have never been attracted to him. Being attracted to him would be as sick as being attracted to a close relative!. But these dreams turn into fascination that I can’t explain. Everytime I close my eyes, he is there, day and night, even when I am with my boyfriend; he is constantly in my head. I thought I was going crazy. Sometimes, at night, as I try to sleep, I would see him, smiling at me. I would get up from bed and tap my head softly, sometimes I pinch myself … I hated seeing him, but he keeps popping up. I was so frustrated that I told my friend who was convinced of the possibility of a love spell. The events that led me to come to this forum are as follows:-
1. I saw him in my dream one night and the following day I bumped into him.
2. I dream about him constantly, I cannot control it. I thought I am having a crush on him, and that all of this was just my fault, but it was’nt because out of frustration I talked to him in my thought, to make it stop and to just tell me what he wants from me. It stopped, and that night I try to think of him by my own free will but there was nothing. I was so relieved he was not in my head.
3. But two days later, I bumped into him, this time he smiled at me and I just smiled back. And all of a sudden, the whole thing began again….
Am I going crazy? Please help me…
Sanny , age: 25 / 21.12.2009
Comments:
Dear sanny,
You are 100 % sane and yes, your friend is probably right. These things happen and you are in shock. Yours is a typical case of a guy wanting what he can't have, wanting what belongs to his friend and resorting to some crafts that may help him get it. I have come across a lot of love spells on the Internet, maybe he did something to make him come to your head. There is no other explanation for this. You don't need to confront him, just avoid and ignore him. Be strong and focus on what you have. If the love between you and your boyfriend is strong and pure, then nothing can break you apart. Believe me, faith does wonders. Do not be scared , engage in different activities and don't keep your mind idle, if the creep appears in your head again, call your bf and say something - anything - that will help you get that thought out of your head, distract yourself.
Jen , age: 28 / 21.12.2009
its just a part of unsatisfaction of something in ur love relations,which is leading you to such things,leave it.....be vth ur true love
palu , age: 18 / 13.07.2010
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