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They went through break up
Experience of surviving a breakup
 Sharing experiences of break-up survival might help others.
Mistakes leading to relationship separation are usually the same and are being repeated over and over again. However, after a break-up, depending on whether it was a love relationship break-up, marital separation, divorce or separation of any other kind, there are various behavioural patterns involved.
If you are searching for a guide on how to survive break-up, then in this section you would find stories of people who managed to survive it because of the way they acted in response to the situation. These are true personal stories of different relationship separations, including romance break-up, separation in marriage and family separation. We are thankful to the authors, as sharing these encourages others to overcome the pain. After a break-up it is never an easy time but you must stay strong as your true love might be still ahead in the future. If you would like to share your own story which may help others in a similar situation, please write to perejit@rambler.ru
It was spring
Marisha, 24 years old
It was in spring… Is it worth saying that everything happened like in the plot of a romance novel? He was 31, gentle, intelligent, caring. It was as if we fused together! There were no doubts even for a minute that he is my soul mate!
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I found my destiny only after 10 years
Natasha P., 32 years old
I always wanted to have a family; a real family of friendly, loving people, sharing common interests and plans, a family which always stays together and which is united by its own unique and exclusive character. Probably some would call it a utopia that happens only in the movies and novel. But I know for sure that this is possible...
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Love with fists
Katya, 22 years old
We were sitting on a park bench with lots of people around us. He slightly hit my hand and said “take your hands off me, cow!” I stood up and left. I had asked him hundreds of times not to call me names… I went home, he came later, but did not think that he was wrong...
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Faithlessness is an illness
Stanislav, 44 years old
In two month the unfaithfulness occurred, it was real illness, dimness of my mind; I struggled to cope with family and mistress, who wanted to take me away from the family...
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Do not allow your soul to be lazy… The story of divorce and a new marriage
Elena, 43 years old
I can admit that he was a wonderful husband – he cooked with pleasure, washed, cleaned, did the shopping and cared about me like I was a small child. But as my husband, he did not stop to being the “life of the party,” though I wanted him to be only mine – I wanted to have a comfortable home and children. In the evenings I waited for him to return after another “event,” I cried and was tormented by the idea that I deserve much better.
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I let my husband go
Olga, 31 years old
From my point of view, the spouses are attached to one another for their mutual training. Every unpleasant situation makes us think about what we are living for, makes us ask the question – Why should we have to carry this unbearable burden?” By thinking we search for the truth, and once we’ve found it, we became richer spiritually and more tolerant of the shortcomings of the other person. And that’s what development is all about! People should not be animals and to live according to animal instincts.
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Gift of unrequited love
Brother, 39 years old
So, I could not influence her, but I could influence myself. My vices became clear to me. I understood their cost. I wanted so much to be better...
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