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Recovery after divorce
What are the reasons for divorce? Should I divorce or save family? How to overcome divorce?
 Marriage separation is a more difficult experience than breaking up of non-marital (though loving) relationships. Divorce ruins life plans and trust to the closest person. It often involves betrayal and unfaithfulness. Divorce is a most severe trial for a person’s self-assertion. Lots of new difficult questions arise in a situation of family breakup. Should I divorce or go all lengths to save a family? If there are children in a marriage, how to make damage less to them, how to bring them up as well-balanced people? How to settle down in new conditions of single life? How to overcome effects of divorce and to mature to new relationships?
Unfaithfulness. Divorce or not to?
Igor Gagarin, Archpriest
First reason for divorce is unfaithfulness. God let to divorce in the case of unfaithfulness. In Old Testament approach to unfaithfulness is more tough: from moment of a spouse unfaithfulness marriage was automatically cancelled. Moreover, if I am not mistaken under Old Testament Law marriage was divorced and desire of spouse to excuse (forgive) unfaithfulness could not change it.
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Do your best for divorce busting
Archpriest Serge Nikolayev
Speak when there is ripe for divorce. «Let’s speak. Explain please. Why?» I can not analyze all divorce cases, but if for example, husband goes to other woman, you may ask him with empathy: «What is going to happen? Will you not leave her? For how long will you stay with her?» Generally speaking, you should ask for common and objective point of view. You will find right words to say after you pray.
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